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  • Babs [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    7·
    29 days ago

    Yeah dance being so gendered is hard. I used to do a lot of swing dance, and learned to lead so that I could dance with this lady I had a crush on, but everyone just assumed I was a follow and pairing up was awkward. Eventually learned to follow just to make things easier for everyone. Being ambidancetrous is pretty cool too.

    The dancing scene is very horny, yes.

    • meler [she/her, ze/hir]@hexbear.netEnglish
      7·
      28 days ago

      I talked about this a bit on sodium’s last dance report but I used to do a ton of swing dance too. I learned to follow and lead and a lot of the guys made it really weird

      • Babs [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
        7·
        28 days ago

        One time I was at a big swing dance festival (8 hours of classes followed by nightly dances. It was intense!) and some guy once literally tried to get between me and a dance partner because he didn’t understand that I was there to learn lead.